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#41191 - 08/02/09 12:44 AM A Naked Domme
AstridsCuckSlave Offline
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My Mistress, Miss Astrid, talked in her latest blog about the debate whether a Domme should get nude in front of her submissive. I have had the pleasure of seeing my Mistress in the nude and it is a sight I'll never forget, but in no way has it diminished her power over me, My Mistress' power comes from who she is. I've seen many beautiful women naked, but it doesn't lead me to dedicated service. I am dedicated to Miss Astrid, because she is a Goddess, dressed or undressed. What about you? How do you feel about seeing your Mistress naked?
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#41192 - 08/02/09 01:23 AM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: AstridsCuckSlave]
MayaSinstress Offline
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As a Mistress, I have no problem with Dommes who chose to or chose not to be nude in a scene. If a Mistress feels more powerful and seductive without clothes on, She should go for it. As a latex fetishist, I feel much sexier covered head to toe in rubber. The more latex the better. To each Her own.

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#41193 - 08/02/09 02:34 AM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: AstridsCuckSlave]
incorrigible60 Offline
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Originally Posted By: AstridsCuckSlave
....How do you feel about seeing your Mistress naked?


It would have to be in the context of roleplay, in which I happened to see the Governess or Head Mistress bathing, whether by accident or design. And that sort of scene would have to be her idea.
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#41194 - 08/02/09 04:41 AM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: AstridsCuckSlave]
Hoodman Offline
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Well if that's what the Mistress wants so be it, i really never care about seeing a Mistress, it would throw me off but ah well, i've never had a naked Domme.

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#41197 - 08/02/09 08:47 AM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: AstridsCuckSlave]
MsAstrid Offline
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I have never sought out nudity or partial nudity as an expected or anticipated event. I think that's the point. I've chosen it when I've wanted it. I think to some degree, as well, that people believe that nudity implies not only weakness, but a suggestion of sexual intercourse to come...i.e., a Domme will allow oral worship or even more if she's nude. This, in my opinion, should never be assumed, in any play scene, professional or otherwise.

Also, like the meaning of nudity, I believe sexual intercourse has many different forms and meanings. To some, having their toes sucked on can be as pleasurable as oral worship.

I guess what I wonder is: where are the boundaries between nudity and submission, sexual intercourse and BDSM play? It could be just as Maya suggest, to each their own. But it's never an easy boundary to navigate, in regards to the norms of the BDSM community and the ways in which we police each other (and ourselves) about proper s&m behaviors.
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#41198 - 08/02/09 08:55 AM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: MsAstrid]
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Whatever she feels comfortable with, simple as that, if nudity can be bought as part of the menue, possibly a different thing than if the Domme decides she wants it because she knows a slave will just be more helpless at the sight of her naked body.
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#41201 - 08/02/09 09:19 AM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: AstridsCuckSlave]
kinkybootbeast Offline
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I am not sure this is really food for debate as it is obviously up to the individual Domme. Whatever she says goes. Most pros probably don't offer this on the "menu" but if she offered I would certainly be interested! smile
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#41203 - 08/02/09 09:30 AM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: AstridsCuckSlave]
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It is an individual choice for each Domme. Not something I usually think about and surely not something I would ever ask for or expect.
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#41222 - 08/02/09 02:20 PM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: AstridsCuckSlave]
jim_pittsburgh Offline
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Originally Posted By: AstridsCuckSlave

My Mistress, Miss Astrid, talked in her latest blog about the debate whether a Domme should get nude in front of her submissive. I have had the pleasure of seeing my Mistress in the nude and it is a sight I'll never forget, but in no way has it diminished her power over me, My Mistress' power comes from who she is. I've seen many beautiful women naked, but it doesn't lead me to dedicated service. I am dedicated to Miss Astrid, because she is a Goddess, dressed or undressed. What about you? How do you feel about seeing your Mistress naked?


It would be up to the Mistress.

Remember, there are many different ways of perceiving a state of undress. If she's nude, it can be a position of power. If she's naked, then it infers vulnerability, and that would, most probably, be counterproductive for a Domme.

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#41223 - 08/02/09 02:25 PM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: jim_pittsburgh]
MsAstrid Offline
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I like that distinction! Nude versus naked. A very useful difference to note, thank you jim.
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#41229 - 08/02/09 05:40 PM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: AstridsCuckSlave]
Virage Offline
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Whether a dominant choses to be nude or not is wholly dependent on the dominant. Just as outfits, hair, et. al. are the dominant's choice.
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#41235 - 08/02/09 06:40 PM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: jim_pittsburgh]
etienne Offline
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Registered: 04/28/08
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Originally Posted By: jim_pittsburgh
If she's nude, it can be a position of power. If she's naked, then it infers vulnerability, and that would, most probably, be counterproductive for a Domme.

Interesting, Jim. You present good reasons, and I don't think you're wrong.

Nonetheless, *my* first blush would have been to reverse the inference. When I hear, "nude" I think of strippers (and perhaps the word "nubile"). "Naked," on the other hand, is more of an animal thing to me (and perhaps I am also influenced by "naked aggression" and such terms).

"Nude" seems a little coy to me, in a way that "naked" does not.

Funny how people see things differently.

Étienne
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#41239 - 08/02/09 07:00 PM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: etienne]
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Hello, for some reason "nude" and "naked" when describing a human body just seems the same to me. Now if we are talking about one's (or someone else's shocked ) genitalia, there are more different, bluer words that make it sound filthier, and some more than others.

But to answer the original question, I think it is up to the Dom, and to request or expect nudity seems rather out of place and wrong. I view it as more of a privilege in a rather, most excruitating, teasing manner. Can't Women be simply evil from time to time...and as well they should be!!! grin

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#41318 - 08/03/09 07:15 PM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: sanity claws]
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Naked = no leather = not good!
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#41325 - 08/03/09 07:31 PM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: pineappleface]
kinkybootbeast Offline
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How about naked except for a pair of thigh high, black leather, stiletto heeled boots??? crazy
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#41326 - 08/03/09 07:43 PM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: kinkybootbeast]
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Originally Posted By: kinkybootbeast
How about naked except for a pair of thigh high, black leather, stiletto heeled boots??? crazy


Well that's nice but still not nearly enough leather!
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#41331 - 08/03/09 08:41 PM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: pineappleface]
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I'll raise you a pair of opera length black leather gloves? grin
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#41398 - 08/04/09 07:39 PM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: kinkybootbeast]
MsAstrid Offline
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Loc: Philadelphia, PA
And I would see you a multiple stranded rhinestone necklace, choker style. Sounds lovely to Me.
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#41399 - 08/04/09 07:45 PM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: MsAstrid]
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Ooooh!!! That sounds lovely Mistress! Absolutely lovely!!! smile

Warm Regards

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#42558 - 08/17/09 01:54 PM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: kinkybootbeast]
allen Offline
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More leather or rubber. the better. A Mistress really shouldn't be either of the aforementioned n words, - that completely takes away the imagination - which is the precious location between the ears where much of bdsm takes place.

On the other hand...hmmmmmm.

A Mistress takes pride in Her dress and presentation of dominance.

Glad to be here posting at Ms. Irene's board.

allen
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#42560 - 08/17/09 02:54 PM Re: A Naked Domme [Re: allen]
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While I am a huge fan of fetish dress, especially boots, leather, and latex, I find that the naked body is best used as a weapon when it comes to D/s. It is a flagrant flag of what is unobtainable. The effects of frustration and frenzy it brings in a slave can make for some very fun games!!
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