Written by Irene
Long before I knew what the scene was I was being approached by
men and women to do
things to them which involved role play, restriction, kinky games
and head space. In other words, was sought out for my dominant
energy without being conscious of what it was. In college my performance art experiments, videos,
sculptures, and paintings usually had underlying SM themes. In
my mid twenties the
urge to explore the dark side more intensely became impossible to
resist, so I eventually embarked on a professional BDSM career partly
out of excitement, fear of the unknown, power gratification, and
boredom with the employment choices I had made. I needed a vocation,
an obsession and a lifestyle, not a job. Plus I needed to put that
creative video production (art degree) from CMU to good use.
It was a good decision, because
I soon came to discover that there is nothing that
inspires me as much as this lifestyle. I started in 1994 and I am still
at it today. It certainly has not been the easiest thing I have done
in my life, but I have
never been one to appreciate things that are simple. From reading this far,
I am sure you have probably surmised that I am strong enough to give you what
you need without compromising myself.
I am a kinky woman
with an open mind who is comfortable "leading" in my D/S
relationships. I am a Top.
I am not a "man
hater". Any humiliation is entirely consensual. "Man
bashing" is not domination. Domination is control. During a D/s
exchange there is
Mistress/slave, Top/bottom, Sadist/masochist etc, but before and
after a scene both parties are people who both happen to be
interested in Dominance and submission.
in the scene make it possible for likeminded people to meet and share intense
I do not think that
dominance is "better" than submission. Like the head and tail of a
coin they are opposite things that compliment each other and in
some ways they are very similar, and indeed people often start out
as one and become the other.
I have a fascination
with female supremacy and other extreme forms of domination .I am
fascinated by the sexual mind. I study different forms and occasionally
practice them consensually with like minded individuals.
My repertoire is
fairly honed from years of practice, so know that I am very good
at the following activities: Predicament bondage, exceptional whip work, corporal
scenarios, various fetishism, role play involving military costumes and
interrogation, objectification, electro play, and
various kinds of suspension.
There are many other
areas of play I find interesting. This is reflected in
member's area and
films. I own wardrobes of custom rubber costumes. My
first fetish was towards boots and I later gravitated towards
who play with me have creative, erotic, cathartic,
psychotherapeutic and stress reducing experiences. Their energy
and mine meets, co-mingles, dances, acts out repressed
fantasies, and sets off sparks. The chemistry is apparent and the
passion is real. I engage the the higher levels of my play
partner's psychosexual libido. Certain activities
may be carried out for the purpose of desired
humiliation, however when the sum of the total experience is
reflected upon it is more about a cathartic release in which
taboos have been explored in ritualistic fashion rather then a
demonstration of base sexual acts. It is important to treat
the things we in the community play around with reverence and
Everything is a matter of presentation and perception.
Many of the films on
this site were created in a building that
has been renovated into a fantasy D/s suite, and others are
made on location and frequently internationally.
are meant as extreme depictions of the various alter egos that
come together to form the personality known as Irene Boss.
artistic femdom fantasy tableaus (as memories) frozen
in time. They are frequently more extreme and intense than
what goes on in a professional session.
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